I’ve crossed a lot of finish lines in my life, but none of them hit like this one.
Not because of the distance. Not because of the medals. But because this time, it wasn’t about me—it was about him.
My son, Rick, was born with cerebral palsy. Doctors told us early on that he’d never walk, never talk. That he’d be “limited.” But they didn’t know his heart. And they definitely didn’t know his spirit.
Rick communicates through a special computer, and a few years ago, he used it to tell me something that stopped me in my tracks:
“Dad, I want to race.”
So we trained. I got a racing wheelchair, adjusted my pace, and we started small—5Ks, then 10Ks, slowly building up. Every race, he lit up. Every mile, he reminded me why we were doing this.
And yesterday was the big day. The marathon. The one we’d been working toward for the past two years. It felt surreal, like a dream that was finally coming true. But it wasn’t just my dream—it was Rick’s.
We stood at the starting line, the crowd buzzing with excitement. It was early, the sun just starting to rise, casting a golden glow over the sea of runners and volunteers. The energy in the air was electric, the anticipation thick, but for me, it was different. I wasn’t worried about the race itself. No, my heart was full of pride for the simple fact that we had made it this far.
Rick was seated in his wheelchair, his eyes sparkling with determination. I could see the way his hands gripped the sides of his chair, the slight tremor of excitement in his fingertips. He wasn’t nervous; he was focused. He had been waiting for this day as long as I had, and now, it was time to make it count.
We’ve had our ups and downs. There were days when the training was tough—too tough, I’d sometimes think—but Rick never once complained. He had a fire inside of him, a desire to prove that his condition didn’t define who he was. Not to me, not to anyone.
As we started the race, I pushed him gently, keeping pace with the other racers. At first, it felt like any other race. We were surrounded by runners of all kinds—some of them fast, some of them slow, but all of them committed. But as the miles ticked by, something incredible started to happen. People began to notice Rick.
We passed the first water station, and as we approached, the volunteers cheered, “Go, Rick! You got this!” At first, it was just a few words of encouragement, but soon, the crowd began to swell, calling out his name, urging us forward. It was as if the entire marathon had become our race, not just a race for us but a race for everyone who had ever felt underestimated or held back by their circumstances.
I could feel the shift. I could feel Rick’s energy change. Every time someone cheered, he smiled wider, pushed harder, and leaned into the chair with more strength. The distance seemed to disappear in those moments. It didn’t matter that his legs didn’t work like everyone else’s or that he had spent his whole life fighting to overcome obstacles. On that course, he was just like everyone else.
The first half of the race was smooth. We were making good time, and Rick seemed to be enjoying the ride. I couldn’t help but laugh to myself—Rick had always been the one pushing me. I was just his partner, his support. But in these moments, it felt like we were both pushing ourselves further than we ever thought possible.
Around the 18-mile mark, something happened. Rick started to slow down. His breathing became heavier, and his eyes started to glaze over. I could feel my heart race. We still had eight miles to go, and I knew we had to keep moving.
“Rick, you okay?” I asked, my voice tight with concern. His computer screen blinked for a moment, and then, slowly, the words appeared: “I’m tired.”
I paused for a second, taking a deep breath. I had to stay calm. He had pushed through so much already. We had trained for this, but it was still tough. “It’s okay,” I said gently. “We’ll take a break. Just a minute. You’re doing amazing.”
We stopped at the side of the road, and I checked Rick’s vitals—he seemed fine, but I could see the exhaustion in his face. I knew this was the point where most people would give up. They’d say it’s too much, too hard, and they’d drop out. But not Rick.
He looked up at me, and his fingers moved slowly to tap out a message on his computer: “Keep going. We can do this.”
And with that, my heart swelled. There was no way I could stop now. Not when he had so much fight in him. So, I took a deep breath, stood up, and started pushing him forward again. We may have been exhausted, but we weren’t finished.
The final miles were the hardest. The sun was high in the sky now, and the heat made the air feel thick. My legs burned, my arms ached, but Rick was the one pushing me forward. He never said a word, but I could feel the energy in his body. It was like his spirit was driving the chair, and I was just along for the ride.
With each mile, I watched the crowd grow larger. People who had been cheering us on from the sidelines now started to join in. It was like a wave of energy surrounding us—every person who had been inspired by Rick’s determination now felt compelled to help us reach the finish line.
Finally, after what seemed like an eternity, we rounded the final corner. The finish line was in sight. The crowd erupted in cheers, shouting our names, urging us forward.
Rick’s hands were shaking now, but his smile was as bright as the sun above us. “We did it,” he typed, his computer screen flashing the words with the smallest flicker of pride.
And together, we crossed the finish line.
I can’t even begin to describe what that moment felt like. There was no medal that could’ve made it more meaningful. There was no applause that could’ve been louder. All I could feel was pride—pride for my son, pride for everything we had overcome together, and most of all, pride for the incredible person he had become.
We didn’t win any awards. We didn’t break any records. But we did something far more significant. We showed the world that nothing could hold us back—not his condition, not the distance, not even the hardest moments. We finished, and that, in itself, was a victory.
Later, as we sat together in the aftermath, catching our breath, I reflected on the journey that had led us to that moment. It wasn’t just about the race. It was about the lessons we had learned along the way. Rick had shown me something I had forgotten: true strength isn’t about the muscles you have or how fast you can run—it’s about your heart, your spirit, and the courage to keep going when everyone else says you can’t.
Rick had proven that, no matter what life throws at you, you can always choose to rise above it. He had already won before he even crossed that finish line.
And the lesson? Life will try to hold you back. It will tell you that you can’t do something, that you’re not enough, that you’ll never make it. But the truth is, you have the power to break through those barriers. All it takes is the will to keep going, even when it feels impossible.
If you’ve ever faced an obstacle in your life, remember Rick’s story. You are stronger than you think, and no matter what, you can achieve things you never thought possible.
If you believe in the power of perseverance, please share this story with someone who might need that extra boost of courage.
