I just wanted a coffee.
That’s all I came in for. One quiet break between meetings, a few sips of something hot before heading back into the chaos. I wasn’t trying to save anyone’s day. I wasn’t trying to be anyone, really. But then I saw him—standing by the napkin dispensers with a backpack that looked like it had been through war.
He was scanning the menu, empty hands fidgeting with the air. No wallet. No phone. Just eyes that looked more tired than hungry.
I don’t know what made me say it. Maybe guilt. Maybe instinct. Maybe I was just tired of walking past people like him and pretending I didn’t see them.
“Hey, man,” I said. “You hungry?”
He looked at me like I’d said something in another language.
Then he blinked a few times, and a small, cautious smile crept onto his face. “Uh, yeah. I guess I am,” he replied, his voice almost hesitant, as if he wasn’t sure whether to trust me or not.
It felt awkward standing there, with him unsure whether to accept or reject my offer. I had only meant to offer him something small, something that wouldn’t require any extra commitment. Just a meal. A simple gesture, something to make this stranger’s day a little better. But now, as he stood in front of me, I realized I had no idea what kind of situation he was in.
“Look, I’m going to get my coffee, but I’ll grab you whatever you want too. My treat,” I said, hoping to keep it casual.
He hesitated again, glancing at the counter like it was a foreign land he wasn’t sure he was allowed to step into. But then, his eyes softened, and he gave a small nod. “Alright, if you insist. I’ll have whatever you’re getting.”
A bit surprised by his response, I turned to the counter and ordered two coffees. I also added a breakfast sandwich, just in case. As I waited for the barista to prepare our order, I couldn’t help but glance back at him. His face had softened, and he was looking out the window now, lost in thought. His backpack was leaning against the wall, and he seemed like he was waiting for something—maybe for the moment to pass, or maybe for some kind of signal to show him what to do next. I didn’t know.
When the barista called my name, I grabbed the tray and walked over to him. “Here you go,” I said, handing him the coffee and sandwich. “On me. It’s not much, but it’s something.”
He took the coffee and stared at the sandwich for a moment, like he wasn’t sure if he should accept it. Then, finally, he nodded gratefully and muttered a quiet “Thanks.”
I sat down across from him, unsure if I should stay or leave. But something told me that staying would be the right thing to do. Maybe we would talk, or maybe we wouldn’t. Either way, I wasn’t in any rush to go back to my meeting.
After a few minutes of awkward silence, he finally spoke up. “I didn’t think anyone would notice me.”
I looked up at him, startled. “What do you mean?”
He shrugged, looking a little embarrassed. “Just… it’s not every day someone offers to buy me something. Most people, they just… ignore me, you know?”
I nodded, a little uncomfortable now. I wanted to say something profound, something to make him feel better about his situation. But the truth was, I didn’t know what to say. How could I?
“I guess you’re just used to it,” I said, trying to break the tension. “But it’s not right. Everyone deserves to be seen.”
He looked at me for a moment, studying my face like he was trying to figure out if I was just another person playing at kindness. Then, he sighed.
“You don’t get it, do you?” he said quietly. “I’m not the person you think I am.”
I felt my heart sink, not sure where this conversation was going. “What do you mean?” I asked, my voice soft.
“I’m not… I’m not homeless,” he said, pausing. “I used to be, but not anymore. I’m… I’m in recovery.”
I froze. His words hung in the air, and for a second, everything seemed to go still. “Recovery?” I repeated, not sure if I understood.
“Yeah,” he said, looking down at his coffee. “I’ve been clean for a while now. I used to be in and out of shelters, but… I’m trying to make things right. Trying to get back on my feet.” He hesitated. “I’ve been trying to find a job. But… it’s harder than people think.”
I didn’t know what to say. It was like the world suddenly shifted, and I saw him differently. The backpack. The tired eyes. The hesitation. It all made sense now.
“I didn’t know,” I said finally, feeling a little foolish for making assumptions.
He gave a half-smile. “It’s okay. Most people don’t. They see the appearance, and they assume. I’ve had a lot of people ignore me, a lot of people turn their backs because they think I’m just a ‘lost cause.’”
I felt a pang in my chest. That’s exactly what I had done for so long—looked past the people who were struggling because it was easier than facing the reality of their pain. But here he was, sitting right in front of me, offering me a glimpse into his life. He wasn’t just some stranger. He was a man who had been through something—and who was trying to make it out the other side.
“I don’t know what to say,” I admitted, genuinely at a loss. “I didn’t mean to…”
He shook his head quickly, cutting me off. “No, don’t apologize. I didn’t expect you to understand. I didn’t expect anything. It’s just… thank you. For seeing me. For treating me like I’m not invisible.”
And just like that, everything shifted again. I didn’t need to have all the answers. I didn’t need to fix anything. All I had to do was treat him like a person—not a label, not an assumption. Just a person.
We talked for a while longer. He told me more about his journey—how he’d been trying to stay clean, how he was working part-time at a local café, how he was saving up for a place of his own. I listened. I didn’t offer any solutions. But I gave him what he needed in that moment: someone to talk to, someone to hear his story without judgment.
Eventually, he got up to leave, thanking me again for the meal. “Take care of yourself,” I said. “And good luck with everything. I really hope it all works out.”
He smiled, his eyes a little brighter than before. “Thanks. Maybe we’ll see each other again someday.”
As he walked out of the café, I sat there for a moment, thinking about what had just happened. My mind was spinning, trying to process everything. The truth was, I had never expected any of this. I didn’t know that a simple act of kindness would lead to such a real, raw conversation. And I definitely didn’t expect it to change the way I looked at the world.
But it did.
Later that day, something strange happened. I received a call from a company I’d applied to months ago—an opportunity I’d almost forgotten about. They wanted to offer me a position. A good position. A better position than I’d been hoping for.
It wasn’t until much later that I realized the connection. The karmic twist. The way my small gesture had shifted something in the universe—how, by seeing someone else, by simply offering a bit of kindness, I had opened the door to something good happening for me too. It wasn’t a direct cause-and-effect, but it was hard to ignore the timing.
Maybe the universe works in mysterious ways. Maybe kindness, when extended, has a way of coming back to us when we least expect it.
So, if you’ve ever had a moment where you’ve felt like reaching out, do it. You never know how much it might mean to someone else. And you never know how that small act of kindness might ripple back into your life in ways you could never predict.
