People love to romanticize it.
“You must love cooking!”
“It must be fun working in such a lively place.”
“You get free food, right?”
They see the polished plates, the fast hands, the fire flashes behind the counter and think it’s cool.
But what they don’t see?
Is the burn on my wrist from three nights ago that still stings every time I flip a pan.
The double shift I pulled on two hours of sleep because Marco didn’t show up again.
The moment the printer starts spitting out twelve orders at once and my heart drops because the sauce for Table 9 just burned and we’re out of mushrooms and someone sent back the steak “too pink.”
There’s no pause button in a kitchen. No time to cry. No time to pee, most nights.
It’s a war zone made of butter, blades, and ticket tape.
And yet we keep going. Because if you stop, even for a second, you risk letting it all fall apart. And that’s something no one who’s never worked in a restaurant truly understands. It’s not just about cooking. It’s about surviving the storm, keeping the chaos at bay, and somehow making it look easy. But trust me—it’s never easy.
The night was already chaotic before the dinner rush even started. I had barely made it through prepping the sauces and garnishes when a tray of plates came crashing down in the back. Marco, the new guy, had tripped. I swear, I thought I could hear the sound of my own sanity cracking as I rushed to help him clean up the mess.
“Just go home,” I said, hands shaking as I mopped up the broken glass and spilled pasta. “You’re not ready for this.”
“I’m sorry,” Marco mumbled, eyes wide with panic. “I didn’t mean—”
“Just go home,” I repeated. “I’ve got this.”
The thing was, I didn’t have it. Not even close.
By the time the first table’s orders came through, I was already behind. The appetizers were supposed to be ready five minutes ago, but the grill was acting up, and the fish wasn’t cooking evenly. I could hear the chef in the back yelling at someone about the sous-vide temperature, and all I could think about was how Marco’s mistake had cost us precious time.
The orders kept piling up, the kitchen started to smell of burnt cheese, and I could feel myself getting further and further behind. I told myself to breathe, to focus, but it was hard when I could see the front-of-house staff pacing nervously by the kitchen door, giving me that look—the look that said, Hurry up, or we’re going to lose this customer.
It wasn’t just the food I had to worry about. I had to make sure the other cooks didn’t burn themselves, make sure the servers didn’t screw up the orders, and keep track of the ticket printer spitting out new ones every few minutes. It was like juggling chainsaws and flaming torches—except no one appreciated the circus behind the curtain.
Then came Table 6.
A family of six, all dressed in their Sunday best, sat down with their kids squirming in excitement. Everything seemed fine at first. They ordered a bottle of wine, some starters, and then the real trouble started when the steak came out—medium-rare, just as they’d asked.
But then the youngest kid, maybe seven or eight, took a bite and immediately spit it out.
“This is too rare,” the mom said, her voice sharp. “I asked for it well done.”
I felt my stomach drop. Of all the things to mess up, this was the one thing that couldn’t slide. If there’s one thing I’ve learned in this industry, it’s that steak is sacred. Overcook it, and you’ll lose customers for life. Undercook it? That’s a disaster.
I tried to keep my composure, forcing a smile, and quickly apologized. But I could see the tension in the air—the way the mom kept glaring, the dad looking awkwardly at his phone, pretending not to notice the growing unease at the table.
As I rushed to the grill to fix the mistake, I thought about the last few weeks. How I had taken on more shifts than I should, how I had barely seen my friends or family, and how every night felt like the same thing: racing against time, always trying to stay one step ahead of the disaster waiting to happen. And yet, no one really understood. They saw the beautifully plated food and thought that was the whole story. But the truth? The truth was in the grind, the exhaustion, and the constant fear of failure.
I handed the overcooked steak to the server with a quiet sigh and hoped that would be the end of it. But of course, it wasn’t.
“Can you please bring another bottle of wine?” the mom snapped as the server walked away. “This is just ridiculous.”
I clenched my jaw, trying to keep my cool. I was tired, my wrists were sore, and there were still five more tables waiting for their food. But I couldn’t afford to lose it. Not now. Not when everything was already on the edge of falling apart.
Hours later, as the restaurant finally slowed down, I leaned against the kitchen counter, wiping sweat from my forehead. The rush was over, but the exhaustion lingered in my bones. I was mentally and physically drained. I wanted nothing more than to collapse into my bed and sleep for twenty-four hours straight, but I couldn’t. I had to stay. I had to make sure everything was cleaned up, prepped for tomorrow.
That’s when I saw Marco again.
He was standing by the door, holding a bag of his things. He was looking down, avoiding my gaze, but there was a sense of regret in his posture. For a moment, I thought he was going to leave for good, but then he surprised me.
“Hey,” Marco said, walking over. “I know I messed up. A lot. But, um… I don’t want to quit. I want to try again.”
I didn’t know what to say. Part of me wanted to tell him that maybe this wasn’t the right job for him, that maybe he wasn’t cut out for this, but the other part of me saw something in his eyes. Maybe it was the same determination that kept me going every night—fighting through the chaos, even when it felt like I was drowning.
I took a deep breath, still trying to shake off the weight of the night.
“Alright, Marco,” I said, giving him a small nod. “We’ll try again. But you need to pull your weight. We don’t have time for mistakes in here.”
The next few weeks passed in a blur. Marco kept showing up, working hard, and learning from his mistakes. There were still mishaps—of course there were—but slowly, he started to find his rhythm. And I couldn’t help but feel a bit proud of him. Maybe he wasn’t ready when he first started, but he was growing. We were all growing.
And then, just when I thought everything had calmed down, the karmic twist came. The restaurant owner, Mr. Grayson, pulled me aside one evening.
“I’ve been watching you,” he said, his voice low. “You’re one of the hardest workers I’ve got. You’re reliable, and you keep the team together when things get tough. I know it’s not always glamorous, but I’ve decided it’s time for you to step up.”
I blinked in surprise.
“I’m promoting you,” he continued. “You’re now the head chef. I’ll be transitioning to the front-of-house, and I want you to run the kitchen.”
My jaw nearly hit the floor. I had never imagined this moment would come so soon. But it did, and for once, I realized all the late nights, the burn marks, and the frustrations weren’t just for nothing.
The lesson here? Sometimes, you have to go through the fire to come out stronger on the other side. It’s not about the fancy plates or the smiles people see when they eat. It’s about the grit, the determination, and the quiet moments where you prove to yourself you can survive the chaos.
And so, when the next dinner rush comes, I’ll be ready. Because now, I know how to lead, how to survive, and how to find success in the madness.
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