It was supposed to be a simple, goofy evening.
We were down at the dock, just me and my five-year-old, Kalin. He had his little net, his “frog-hunting” bucket, and about three marshmallows stuffed in his mouth from the campfire we’d built earlier. The sun was going down, and you could hear the frogs starting to croak around the edge of the water. It was his favorite sound in the world.
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“I see one!” he yelled, pointing like it was buried treasure.
He took off running—barefoot, of course—toward the edge of the dock. I was just a few steps behind, laughing, telling him to slow down. But before I could even get the words out, I heard the crack.
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He slipped.
It wasn’t a long fall, but he hit the edge weird—knee twisted under him, body half in the mud. At first, I thought it was just a scrape. Kids fall all the time. But when I saw the angle his leg was at, my stomach dropped.
He tried to laugh. “Did I squish it?” he asked through clenched teeth, still thinking about the frog.
But then I saw the pain in his eyes, and the twisted angle of his leg made my heart race. My instincts kicked in. I rushed to him, ignoring the mud on my own feet, kneeling beside him as he gripped his leg, still trying to put on that brave face.
“Don’t move, buddy,” I said, my voice shaky but trying to stay calm for him. “Let’s get you up and get you inside, okay?”
He winced but nodded, his face turning pale. My heart pounded in my chest as I carefully helped him to his feet. I could feel how stiff and unyielding his leg was as I tried to support his weight. There was no denying it now. He wasn’t just hurt; this was something serious.
The trip to the car felt like the longest drive of my life. Kalin was trying to be brave, but I could see the tears gathering at the corners of his eyes. I kept asking him if he was okay, if he wanted to rest, but he kept shaking his head, determined to show that he was tough. I knew he was scared. I was too.
When we finally pulled into the emergency room parking lot, I almost ran through the doors, carrying him in my arms, my heart heavy with every step. The nurses took one look at him and immediately took us back to a room. The sound of machines beeping and people talking in the background faded as I tried to focus on Kalin, who was holding onto me tightly, his little body shaking with fear.
“I’m sorry, buddy,” I whispered, brushing the hair out of his face. “I should’ve been more careful. I should’ve made sure you stayed closer to me.”
He looked up at me, still trying to be brave. “It’s okay, Mom. It’s just a little fall.”
But the doctor soon confirmed what I feared: Kalin had broken his leg. The bone was badly fractured, and it would need to be set in a cast. My mind was spinning as I tried to absorb the news. I had never wanted to see my child in pain, especially not from something as simple as a frog hunt.
I felt guilty. I felt like I had failed him. The night had started so innocently. We were just two people enjoying each other’s company, making memories. How had something so small turned into a trip to the ER?
After a couple of hours, they got his leg stabilized, and we were told to take it easy for a while. They gave him pain medication and instructions for his recovery, which included several weeks of rest. Kalin, despite the pain, was in good spirits by the time we left the hospital, telling me stories about how he was going to be a “superhero” with a cast, since all superheroes have cool, broken bones.
I smiled at his optimism, but inside, I couldn’t shake the nagging feeling that I had somehow let him down. What kind of parent lets their kid get hurt so easily? Shouldn’t I have been more careful, more watchful? I should’ve stopped him from running, from chasing the frogs like his life depended on it.
As the days passed and Kalin adjusted to life with a broken leg, I kept replaying the event over and over in my mind. I couldn’t help but think that if I had been more mindful, more aware, he wouldn’t be in pain. But then, one day, as I was cleaning up after lunch, I heard Kalin laughing in the other room. I walked in to find him sitting on the couch with his little cast propped up, watching a cartoon, grinning from ear to ear.
“I’m okay, Mom!” he said with such genuine happiness that it almost made my heart ache. “I can still do stuff with my cast. And guess what? I got a sticker on my cast! Look!”
He proudly showed me the colorful sticker that had been placed on his cast by the nurse—a silly frog with a big smile.
It struck me then, like a bolt of lightning: Kalin wasn’t focusing on the accident. He wasn’t dwelling on his pain. He was adapting, finding ways to make the situation his own, turning it into something positive. I, on the other hand, had spent days worrying and beating myself up. I had been focused on the negative, on the “what-ifs,” while my son was showing me how to make the best of a tough situation.
I realized then that life isn’t always going to go according to plan. We can’t always control what happens or shield our loved ones from harm. But we can control how we react to those challenges. Kalin had taken something that should have been traumatic and turned it into an opportunity for growth. He was showing me the lesson I needed to learn.
The next few weeks were challenging, of course. Kalin couldn’t run around the way he usually did, and there were definitely days when he got frustrated with being limited in what he could do. But every time I started to feel sorry for him, he would do something that reminded me that he was tough, that he was resilient. He drew pictures of frogs to put on his cast, told stories about his adventures, and even found a way to “race” his toy cars across the floor without needing to walk.
His ability to adapt, to find joy even in difficult circumstances, was a lesson I needed. I started to realize that maybe, just maybe, there’s value in letting go of the control we so desperately want to hold on to. Life will throw challenges our way, but it’s how we face them that truly matters.
Kalin taught me that the true measure of strength isn’t in avoiding pain or hardship; it’s in how we navigate through it, in finding the small moments of joy and laughter that make life worth living—even when things don’t go as planned.
A month later, his cast came off, and he was back to running, jumping, and frog-hunting once again. But this time, I was watching him with a newfound appreciation—not just for how resilient he was, but for the lesson he had taught me. That sometimes, it’s okay to fall, to make mistakes, as long as we pick ourselves up, dust ourselves off, and keep moving forward.
As for me? I promised myself that I wouldn’t hold onto guilt anymore. I couldn’t change what happened, but I could change how I saw it. Instead of beating myself up, I chose to embrace the lesson Kalin had shown me: to adapt, to find the humor in the small things, and to never let the bumps in the road stop me from enjoying the journey.
If you’re going through something difficult or unexpected, remember this: it’s not the accident or the setback that defines you—it’s how you rise from it, how you learn from it. And sometimes, the biggest lessons come from the people you least expect to teach you.
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